Bridesmaid gifts are one of the most meaningful gestures of a wedding, a way to thank the people who stood beside you on one of the most important days of your life. A quality candle is one of the most popular and appreciated bridesmaid gift choices, and here is how to choose one that genuinely reflects your gratitude.
Why candles make such good bridesmaid gifts
A candle is personal, luxurious, and practical. It is something each bridesmaid will use and enjoy in her own home, and every time she lights it she will be reminded of your wedding day. Unlike jewellery or accessories that may not suit everyone's taste, a beautifully presented candle in a universally loved scent is a gift that works for any bridesmaid.
Choosing the right scent
For bridesmaid gifts, you have two approaches. You can choose a single scent for all your bridesmaids, which creates a cohesive, considered feel. Or you can choose a different scent for each bridesmaid based on her individual personality and taste, which feels more personal but requires more thought.
A single scent for all bridesmaids
Choose something universally appealing and romantic. Soft florals like rose or peony, warm vanilla, or a fresh linen scent all work beautifully. The candle becomes a shared memento of the day.
Individual scents for each bridesmaid
This approach shows exceptional thoughtfulness. Choose a scent that reflects something true about each bridesmaid: her favourite flower, a fragrance family she loves, or a scent associated with a shared memory. Include a note explaining why you chose that particular scent for her.
Presentation ideas
- A personalised label with the bridesmaid's name and the wedding date
- A ribbon in your wedding colour tied around the vessel
- A handwritten note from you, specific to each bridesmaid
- Presented in a small gift bag or box alongside another small token
When to give bridesmaid candle gifts
Bridesmaid gifts are traditionally given at the hen party, the rehearsal dinner, or on the morning of the wedding. The morning of the wedding is particularly lovely, as it gives each bridesmaid something beautiful to hold and appreciate before the day begins.
How much to spend
A bridesmaid candle gift in the range of £15 to £25 per person is generous and appropriate. For a very close friend or a particularly significant bridesmaid, a larger candle or a small gift set at £25 to £40 feels more substantial.
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